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Stephen
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Stuck on Earth

Jules
Nov 29 2017, 04:34 PM
Kebab is most definitely culture. Nothing beats it for lunch <3
Nothing beats kebab as a 3AM meal, honestly.
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Cross
Nov 29 2017, 05:31 PM
I come back after a short break. did not expect some saltiness.
Anyways, I've learned that the girl I like is taken. At this point I don't care.
Also, the second week of me taking my anti-depressants is almost over.
Take anti-depressant just because a girl is taken?
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Dylan
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No. He is struggling with depression. They just happen to be linked
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Just a ZT Youtuber

I've been thinking about making a topic thing for my animal photography but I don't think I'll ever get around to it...
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today is one of those days when i wanna just give up on everything.
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Eldritch Minds

dycki1231
Nov 30 2017, 09:40 AM
Cross
Nov 29 2017, 05:31 PM
I come back after a short break. did not expect some saltiness.
Anyways, I've learned that the girl I like is taken. At this point I don't care.
Also, the second week of me taking my anti-depressants is almost over.
Take anti-depressant just because a girl is taken?


not quite. The loneliness of course I cannot handle, but a girl being taken is not what triggered the feeling at all. its the fact that i have never been in a relationship nor have I dated triggered it. i have a really bad jealousy complex that i am fully aware of.

Gonna provide some background info; i was harshly bullied for who I was back in 2014, and I struggle to accept what had happened.

not only that, but I never talked to anybody at all back when I was in elementary school, and I was abandoned by my peers to sit at a table alone around the time I was bullied.

i was pretty much a naive child at the time (and i certainly acted that way here up until this point) and I had gone through a lot of bad moments in my life that I should have not been through.

Dylan
Nov 30 2017, 01:58 PM
No. He is struggling with depression. They just happen to be linked


same situation, but then again it kinda hits closer to home because when I see a couple or anything, I think of how i've never dated or been in a relationship. My friends motivate me through these times, and have told me to try to accept my loneliness.

i just can't.

If something cannot be understood, tell me. Btw, my retainers are going to be worn at night now, so no more wearing plastic in the day. yaaay

~X

btw, please don't ask questions about my personal life. i feel extremely insecure about this crap.
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Well seeing as were talking about depression. Argument with two friends on Wednesday. Christmas coming up and without them, I'll be alone (I have family of course but like other days besides Christmas eve+day)

FML
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Cross
Nov 30 2017, 08:07 PM
dycki1231
Nov 30 2017, 09:40 AM
Cross
Nov 29 2017, 05:31 PM
I come back after a short break. did not expect some saltiness.
Anyways, I've learned that the girl I like is taken. At this point I don't care.
Also, the second week of me taking my anti-depressants is almost over.
Take anti-depressant just because a girl is taken?


not quite. The loneliness of course I cannot handle, but a girl being taken is not what triggered the feeling at all. its the fact that i have never been in a relationship nor have I dated triggered it. i have a really bad jealousy complex that i am fully aware of.

Gonna provide some background info; i was harshly bullied for who I was back in 2014, and I struggle to accept what had happened.

not only that, but I never talked to anybody at all back when I was in elementary school, and I was abandoned by my peers to sit at a table alone around the time I was bullied.

i was pretty much a naive child at the time (and i certainly acted that way here up until this point) and I had gone through a lot of bad moments in my life that I should have not been through.

Dylan
Nov 30 2017, 01:58 PM
No. He is struggling with depression. They just happen to be linked


same situation, but then again it kinda hits closer to home because when I see a couple or anything, I think of how i've never dated or been in a relationship. My friends motivate me through these times, and have told me to try to accept my loneliness.

i just can't.

If something cannot be understood, tell me. Btw, my retainers are going to be worn at night now, so no more wearing plastic in the day. yaaay

~X

btw, please don't ask questions about my personal life. i feel extremely insecure about this crap.
Those medicine can only make yourself chemical stable like a normal person but if the source of stress is come from psychological, the medicine would not help much. You should better to learn that everyone is lonely in different intensity in the world as no one can be identical to each other.
Besides, I recommend you to try involve in some new community far from your current living circle. It would help if you can share your true feeling with strangers without any burden.
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Just got back from work, midday tension headache is gone, my guinea pigs were extra cuddly today and I have time for my projects. Life is good, have a nice day everyone ^_^
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dycki1231
Dec 1 2017, 10:52 AM
Cross
Nov 30 2017, 08:07 PM
dycki1231
Nov 30 2017, 09:40 AM
Cross
Nov 29 2017, 05:31 PM
I come back after a short break. did not expect some saltiness.
Anyways, I've learned that the girl I like is taken. At this point I don't care.
Also, the second week of me taking my anti-depressants is almost over.
Take anti-depressant just because a girl is taken?


not quite. The loneliness of course I cannot handle, but a girl being taken is not what triggered the feeling at all. its the fact that i have never been in a relationship nor have I dated triggered it. i have a really bad jealousy complex that i am fully aware of.

Gonna provide some background info; i was harshly bullied for who I was back in 2014, and I struggle to accept what had happened.

not only that, but I never talked to anybody at all back when I was in elementary school, and I was abandoned by my peers to sit at a table alone around the time I was bullied.

i was pretty much a naive child at the time (and i certainly acted that way here up until this point) and I had gone through a lot of bad moments in my life that I should have not been through.

Dylan
Nov 30 2017, 01:58 PM
No. He is struggling with depression. They just happen to be linked


same situation, but then again it kinda hits closer to home because when I see a couple or anything, I think of how i've never dated or been in a relationship. My friends motivate me through these times, and have told me to try to accept my loneliness.

i just can't.

If something cannot be understood, tell me. Btw, my retainers are going to be worn at night now, so no more wearing plastic in the day. yaaay

~X

btw, please don't ask questions about my personal life. i feel extremely insecure about this crap.
Those medicine can only make yourself chemical stable like a normal person but if the source of stress is come from psychological, the medicine would not help much. You should better to learn that everyone is lonely in different intensity in the world as no one can be identical to each other.
Besides, I recommend you to try involve in some new community far from your current living circle. It would help if you can share your true feeling with strangers without any burden.
Oh boy...there is a lot wrong here.

Antidepressants can provide relief from depression and anxiety of any kind, it doesn't matter if its due to issues with neurotransmitters or if its related to social/emotional difficulties. The only times I can think of where an antidepressant would not be prescribed are if the individual has a physical illness that is directly causing the depression or if the individual has not responded well to antidepressants in the past.

Telling someone with Clinical Depression to "learn that everyone is lonely in different intensity" is some of the worst advice you can give. Not only does it invalidate how they personally feel, it writes off their experiences as unimportant because "everyone experiences it."

Also he's a minor, I doubt he can just get involved with a new community far from his current one.
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Dec 1 2017, 01:29 PM
dycki1231
Dec 1 2017, 10:52 AM
Cross
Nov 30 2017, 08:07 PM
dycki1231
Nov 30 2017, 09:40 AM
Cross
Nov 29 2017, 05:31 PM
I come back after a short break. did not expect some saltiness.
Anyways, I've learned that the girl I like is taken. At this point I don't care.
Also, the second week of me taking my anti-depressants is almost over.
Take anti-depressant just because a girl is taken?




Gonna provide some background info; i was harshly bullied for who I was back in 2014, and I struggle to accept what had happened.

not only that, but I never talked to anybody at all back when I was in elementary school, and I was abandoned by my peers to sit at a table alone around the time I was bullied.

i was pretty much a naive child at the time (and i certainly acted that way here up until this point) and I had gone through a lot of bad moments in my life that I should have not been through.

Dylan
Nov 30 2017, 01:58 PM
No. He is struggling with depression. They just happen to be linked


same situation, but then again it kinda hits closer to home because when I see a couple or anything, I think of how i've never dated or been in a relationship. My friends motivate me through these times, and have told me to try to accept my loneliness.

i just can't.

If something cannot be understood, tell me. Btw, my retainers are going to be worn at night now, so no more wearing plastic in the day. yaaay

~X

btw, please don't ask questions about my personal life. i feel extremely insecure about this crap.
Those medicine can only make yourself chemical stable like a normal person but if the source of stress is come from psychological, the medicine would not help much. You should better to learn that everyone is lonely in different intensity in the world as no one can be identical to each other.
Besides, I recommend you to try involve in some new community far from your current living circle. It would help if you can share your true feeling with strangers without any burden.
Oh boy...there is a lot wrong here.

Antidepressants can provide relief from depression and anxiety of any kind, it doesn't matter if its due to issues with neurotransmitters or if its related to social/emotional difficulties. The only times I can think of where an antidepressant would not be prescribed are if the individual has a physical illness that is directly causing the depression or if the individual has not responded well to antidepressants in the past.

Telling someone with Clinical Depression to "learn that everyone is lonely in different intensity" is some of the worst advice you can give. Not only does it invalidate how they personally feel, it writes off their experiences as unimportant because "everyone experiences it."

Also he's a minor, I doubt he can just get involved with a new community far from his current one.
I know that's the worst advice on that but I just mean that switching view can sometime help with people other than let them force themselves to be happy.
And maybe my elaboration is wrong but I want to say that any kind of medicine deal with mental kind problem are just act like tranquilizers. They can only stop you temporarily but if the source of stimulation can not be correctly located and reduced. The reliance of that person to medicine would just become larger and larger.

And about cross , it seems that it is a unlucky experience of being bullied and isolated by shity classmate. Honestly, every school have this kind of situation, if you are located as a weak and easily bullied guy, you would just fell to the bottom and no one would help you as they won't want to be the next you.Under this state, we tends to build high defense to other because we are used to face attack. And this make us feel secure but sad because of not understand what others thinking. When no one talk with you and yourself tend to refuse to talk, it is easy to feel lonely.
And that's all my guest. So to solve this situation, I jumped to a conclusion that get to some place that your past would never pose any effect to you so no one at there can threaten you even you show your true feeling.
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I know that's the worst advice on that but I just mean that switching view can sometime help with people other than let them force themselves to be happy.

Professionally this would be similar to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, which is a popular and relatively successful form of therapy. But a patient has to be stable enough and willing to try this, and even then it is a long process. When a patient has Clinical Depression they can't just "switch their view" that easily, because its far more than just a bad mood.
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And maybe my elaboration is wrong but I want to say that any kind of medicine deal with mental kind problem are just act like tranquilizers. They can only stop you temporarily but if the source of stimulation can not be correctly located and reduced. The reliance of that person to medicine would just become larger and larger.

No, they aren't all like tranquilizers. Of all the psychiatric medications I'm familiar with the only types that are explicitly used as tranquilizers are Benzodiazepines and Barbituates, and those typically are for short-term use because they can cause dependency. Antipsychotics may function as a sedative but they are primarily used to manage "positive" symptoms of psychosis including hallucinations and delusions. And SSRIs, SNRIs, and Mood Stabilizers are NOT used in this way at all.

I also feel its fair to point out that Antipsychotics, Mood Stabilizers, and Antidepressants are necessary for the day to day function of a person. I feel like no one would argue that a person with Schizophrenia experiences a negative reliance on their Antipsychotics because many Schizophrenics would not be able to function without their medication. And for some people with Anxiety and Depression that can also be the case.

Do I think medication is the ultimate magical cure-all treatment for any psychiatric illness? Absolutely not, and it's incredibly naive and dangerous to believe that medication will fix everything. That being said I recognize it serves an important purpose in the treatment of many psychiatric patients. They can be beneficial for short-term and long-term use, and some may cause dependency but so can medications for physical illnesses. If I had a patient who was diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder and who I believed would benefit from taking Antidepressants I would prescribe them.

Apologies for ranting but I study Psychology and work in the mental health field so...
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Dec 2 2017, 12:15 AM


Apologies for ranting but I study Psychology and work in the mental health field so...
So here comes a professional for helping xD
Just one more thing to clarify, the one that I said get to another society, is to join some extracurricular activities or volunteer work that you like to do that not involved any person you knew in past so you can build up your image from zero again and meet some better people.


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OK,

that is enough of that discussion.
So yeah, hows life doing ya'll? I am legitimately about to die of complete and utter boredom. I don't want to play video games because dumb players ruined it for me. Trying to cool off before I split the Earth in two.
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