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| The Key to Happiness; A CRG Production | |
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| Topic Started: Jul 10 2013, 03:44 AM (489 Views) | |
| CRG | Jul 10 2013, 03:44 AM Post #1 |
Mr. 1859
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I have noticed lately that everyone in the community seems to be depressed these days. Its come to my mind that lately people have been more hurtful in there words also, me included. I've noticed that when chaos in the community happens people get more depressed. That's why I decided to start this blog. Everyone says to do what makes you happy and don't care about others. However I find this to be a telling statement. People that only do what they want to when they want to seem to not care about others. I've noticed people who don't care about others often seem to be depressed or angry often. It's come to my realization that since I came out of my shell in the community I have been happier. One of the key's to happiness is being who you are and not caring what anyone else thinks. A lot of people who are atheists seem to say they don't care what Christians, or Muslims etc. say. Although when they talk about it they always seem to say it with hate. Think in your head, do you have the right to be who you are and think what you think? YES!! Do they also? YES!!! So what do I recommend? Ignoring them. Does there opinion really matter to you. If you are religious just think in your head what you believe will happen to them and ignore it. If you are not religious then just think in your head on things they believe and how you feel about what they believe in. Whether you are Atheist of Religious just ignore them. Think in your head what you think of them. How you feel there opinion doesn't matter and how there opinions and facts they believe in are ridiculous. Think then, why do you care what they think. Another key to happiness is often seen as stopping you from being happy. Trying to make other people happy. I'm not saying you should do what others want you to. Or to give up on your likes to please someone else. There is several times a day where you can do something that will make someone happy that won't make you sad. Whether you see someone sad and you cheer them up, or just post something funny. Whether you help someone with a problem. Or even just help your parents clean up. Or tell someone you love them you haven't told in awhile. It will really make you feel better about yourself. Another key to happiness is emotion. A lot of people seem think showing your emotions is bad. However I disagree. If you are sad or tense just find a good sad movie to watch and cry or go in a private place and cry. Or even the same with Laughter. If you find a joke you made funny feel free to laugh. Or even just looking up funny pictures on the internet. Or reading a joke book. I often find several moments a week where I just cry and several times a day where I tell a joke on the computer or in RL often to myself and I just laugh. Another key to happiness is talking to someone you care about. If you feel there is no one go in a quiet place and talk to yourself. If it starts to feel awkward talk about how it feels awkward. If you do it in the same spot all the time you'll often feel it seems like someone is listening even to the point you occasionally answer yourself. I'll post more of these if I get comments. |
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| OwlParrot | Jul 10 2013, 03:45 AM Post #2 |
 
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Couldn't of said it better Buddy |
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| Farkle | Jul 10 2013, 07:33 PM Post #3 |
~Rad as Heck~
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This is a pretty awesome thing, CRG. I look forward to hearing what else you have to say! 
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| CRG | Jul 11 2013, 12:47 AM Post #4 |
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Mr. 1859
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Everyone always thinks the grass is always greener on the other side. Often it is not and if it is that person spends all their time making it green. Everyone seems to want what they can not have. Instead of focusing on what you want try focusing on what you have. If you feel you are poor and that on the other side of the fence they are rich and have a care free life, then think. How does that make sense? People that are rich often have to work all day long. They have to be on call all day long. They rarely ever can find love or friendship where the other person isn't just a leech. The key to happiness is not trying to hop the fence to get to the other side. Its making your side improve by treating it with proper care, hard work, and acceptance. |
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